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A toddler between 18 to 30 months is frisky and temperamental needing constant supervision, care and mother’s nurturance. Therefore, toddlers may find it difficult to settle in a daycare centre for long hours amidst unknown adults and children of varying ages, many of whom seek attention from time to time. However, if you seriously want to send your toddler to a daycare centre, there will be trained staff in early childhood care and education and support staff to act as substitute caretakers to look after your child’s developmental needs and requirements. They will also help your child adjust to the group setting. Let us delve into the pros and cons comprising advantages and disadvantages, to help you make an informed choice about a good daycare centre for your toddler.
- First of all, a formal day care centre is licensed and regulated by local authorities. Being a group care for children from infancy to middle childhood, it is affordable, unless flashing a huge brand name.
- A good daycare centre offers a daily program which includes meals, sleep time, play and co-curricular activities with close supervision both indoors and outdoors.
- There is the provision of nutritious meals, age-appropriate activities, and hands-on experiences for children. Sufficient space and materials are provided at all times.
- Facilities such as first aid and paediatric consultations are provided whenever needed. Most daycare centres are equipped with a hygienic kitchen, clean bathrooms and changing areas, and individual cubbies for children’s belongings.
- Nowadays it is mandatory to have a closed circuit surveillance to upgrade the children’s security.
- Many daycare centres maintain regular contacts with parents to discuss the health and welfare of their wards.
- It is usually a challenge to find good daycare centres that meet all your expectations. For instance, the preferred one may be either full or far away from your residence, with rigid hours for dropping and collecting your child.
- If there are many younger children at the centre, the staff will be hard-pressed to meet their individual needs, especially as it is easy for little children to fall sick in group care.
- Many centres compromise on some aspects of their program which fall outside the ambit of the prescribed norms. For instance, on some days the support staff may bundle younger children together in smaller spaces, during nap time, for personal convenience.
- The holidays followed by the centre may not match with your holidays as a working mother, so you may have to make alternative arrangements on those days.
- You may have to drop off your toddler early in the morning with his extra clothes, munchies, and water, which may be very inconvenient for you.
The advantages of a dycare far outweighs the disadvantages at such centres.
It is important for you to study the pros and cons of daycare and narrow down a few choices. It is then advisable to visit these centres to observe the setting and meet the staff and parents before you make a final decision.
Toddlers between 15 to 24 months with their just-gained simple sensory-motor skills delve gleefully into everything exciting that catches their eye! Don’t be surprised if your toddler tries to reach for the porcelain vase or raid your makeup box and smear lipstick and mascara all over her face. All work and activities at home are a toddler’s play. It helps stabilise their sensory motor skills and promotes new learning of concepts and behaviours. Your toddler will find her own avenues to play if no likable activities are provided at home. She will try new heights, run around, test her physical skills, play with gooey stuff and bang on things. She will assert her new found independence of mobility and will want to do everything on her own.
With a limited vocabulary, she will rely on physical force and tantrums to get her own way. She will also have mood swings many times in a day. One moment she will be loving and the next moment she may throw a terrible tantrum. Once you shower attention on her, she will be calm and quiet. But if you pull away your toddler from such escapades, she will fight you and throw a huge tantrum. If your verbal ticking off after such incidents has not put the brakes on your little one, here are some useful tips that will help you avoid a power struggle with your toddler.
Provide her a safe play area at home, where she can express her autonomy, control and release her physical energy, within safety limits and her maturity. Allow her to make a mess without making her feel guilty or ashamed. Stock a variety of attractive play materials and accessories for playing in the safe area and replenish or change them from time to time. If she enjoys her space, she will not have the need to indulge in forbidden escapades. If your child is playing beside another child, provide enough toys that look similar, or you will have them snatching at each other’s toys. Also, do read up on preparing age-appropriate play activities for toddlers.
Keep your expensive and treasured articles out of reach of your toddler and make your house child proof in general.
Always tell your child what to do instead of telling her what not to do. Follow through on what you have told your child. This approach will reinforce positive behaviours and perhaps avoid power tussles with you and your child.
When your child is hurting someone stop her immediately by holding her wrists or carrying her outside the room. Give her a hug and wait till she calms down. Only then you can tell her why you did not like her behaviour, but you love her.
Have some quiet time for yourself and recharge your energy levels by relaxing with a good book. You will be ready to face any challenge.
Well planned play activities and accessories in a designated area at home will keep your toddler happily occupied so that she does not have the urge to go in search of forbidden escapades. It will also diminish her negative behaviours used with others, and, power struggles with you.
Toddlers aged between 18 to 20 months spend most of their time in being adventurous or trying to assert their independence at home. They like to get their own way in their social environment and, when thwarted, they like to cry, grab, bite, poke or hit others. As a mother, you can develop your child’s social skills through guided experiences in key areas. Some well planned guided experiences will go a long way in helping your toddler build social skills.
Set a daily routine
Knowing what to do will help your toddler regularise his daily routine.
It will also give him the opportunity to make independent choices in things under his control, such as picking out what to wear.
Provide a safe home environment
As far as possible, allow your child to express his likes, dislikes, independence and adventurous behaviours by close supervision. In turn, this will help him gain greater mobility and a positive self-image.
Set up a supervised play environment
Provide plenty of resourceful materials and activities, so that your toddler can use them to release his pent-up feelings and physical energy.
Let your toddler play alongside other toddlers without having to share toys or take turns with them. This is because they like to indulge in parallel play. Just remember to provide multiple toys and be sure to supervise from a distance.
Also, arrange play dates with older children so your toddler can observe and learn about sharing and other social skills.
Give opportunities to practice and internalise, for instance, a newly learnt social behaviour through “pretend play” as children love this medium.
Set limits for unacceptable behaviours
Provide corresponding reasons when setting limits for unacceptable behaviours for your toddler. If he crosses the line, let your child know that you love him but did not like his behaviour. This way he will feel loved and secure while understanding why you ticked him off.
Help your toddler be aware of his feelings by labeling them, such as “feeling sad” because his toy is broken or “feeling angry” because he did not get the balloon he wanted. Slowly he will start verbalising them instead of throwing tantrums.This will also help your toddler show empathy to his peers in trouble.
Lead by example
Speak as much as possible and verbalise your actions when interacting with your toddler, so that he picks up some language skills. They will prove to be very useful in communicating with others.
Provide a good role model to your toddler as he learns by imitating others around him.
So work on those key areas and if you found these tips useful share it with other mothers you know.